Can’t Complain 😊
Definition:
Can’t Complain — An expression used as a response to the question “How are things going?” implying that things are reasonably good or satisfactory. It’s often used to avoid expressing any real dissatisfaction.
Origin:
Surprise, surprise! This very contemporary-sounding phrase hails from mid-nineteenth-century Britain. Eric Partridge highlights an early instance in R. S. Surtees’s Hawbuck Grange (1847), where a character replies “Middling—can’t complain” when asked about how they are faring. The phrase modestly deflects, suggesting that even if there are minor issues, they are not worth discussing.
Similar Terms & Associated Expressions:
Instead of telling your curious colleague the unvarnished truth about your circus of a life, you might also say:
- Fair to middling.
- Not too shabby.
- Can’t complain, boss!
- Same old, same old.
- So far, so good.
Humor-Filled Quote:
“Why do we use ‘can’t complain’ when frankly, we sometimes have a laundry list of things to complain about? Because some days, even our complaints need a break from us.”
Literature, Books, Songs, Poetry, and Movies:
- Hawbuck Grange by R. S. Surtees for the original phrase in context.
- Keep Calm and Carry On – a historical book examining British stoicism.
- Song: “Good Day Sunshine” by The Beatles for when you’re truly ‘can’t complain’ happy.
- Movie: Groundhog Day for exploring monotonous routines with a twist.
Inspiring Thought:
When life circles back on itself and offers you the same old routine, find joys in the littlest details. Saying “can’t complain” could sometimes mean life is predictably pleasant, and that can be a blessing in disguise.
Take this as a gentle nudge towards appreciating life’s small mercies. Saying “can’t complain” signifies contentment, closure, and the optimism of looking towards the brighter side. Remember, when the going gets tough, the ticklishly tough get going with a quip of can’t complain!
With pleasant regards,
L. O. Quacious
Octorubrison Books 🕮
2023-10-01
