Charity Begins at Home
Charity begins at home - One of those pearls of wisdom that has endured through centuries, reminding us that taking care of one’s own family and responsibilities is paramount before extending a helping hand to others. This saying has its roots in Paul’s advice to Timothy in the New Testament (Timothy 5:4), emphasizing familial obligations.
Naturally, the phrase has evolved over time. Fourteenth-century English churchman John Wycliffe wrote, around 1380, “Charity schuld beginne at home,” cementing the idea that personal duty is the foundation of broader altruism. Yet, as industriously noted by H. B. Thompson, sometimes charity “begins at home and usually stays there,” proving that human nature likes a cozy home base.
Related and Similar Terms
- Home is where the heart is: Prioritizing one’s own home and family.
- Take care of your own house first: Another nudge to focus on one’s own issues before fixing others’.
- Put your own oxygen mask on first: Always be in a position of strength yourself before aiding others.
Synonyms
- Domestic charity
- Family-first philanthropy
Antonyms
- Altruism and self-neglect
- Outwardly-focused charity
Quotable Wit and Wisdom
- “Charity begins at home but doesn’t end there.” – Thomas Fuller
- “Home is not where you live but where they understand you.” – Christian Morgenstern
Thought-Provoking Farewell
“May your heart’s empathy begin within your walls, and your hands’ labor spread to horizons unseen.”
- Penelope Proverbial
Literature, Songs, Movies for Reference
- Books: “Little Women” by Louisa May Alcott – Showcases the importance of familial care.
- Songs: “Love Can Build a Bridge” by The Judds – Symbolizes how internal love strengthens external bonds.
- Movies: “The Pursuit of Happyness” – A testament to the lengths one will go to take care of one’s family.
