🍃 Cut Someone Some Slack, To
To “cut someone some slack” means to give someone a break or a pass, often because they are going through something challenging. Imagine the tautness of a stressed life being akin to a rope wound too tight; easing this tension can bring relief. This idiom emerged from the world of sailing and ropes, possibly mid-20th century. It’s an invitation to practice compassion. As Sandra Brown writes in her book Alibi (1999), “‘Don’t lean on him yet; let’s cut him some slack for now.’”
Picture Winona, having a rough week, running late on a work project because her cat Marvin decided to take dance lessons all week (or so it seemed from all the broken vases). You can either knock her for the deadline miss or cut her some slack. Marvin’s sowhoos-and-chagrins are enough stress as it is!
Related and Similar Terms
Give/Quit Somebody A Break: To stop bothering or pressuring someone.
Go Easy On: To not be strict or harsh.
Take A Chill Pill: A 1980s-born phrase meaning to relax or calm down.
Proverbs and Expressions
“To err is human, to forgive, divine.” This old proverb emphasizes understanding over judgment.
“Don’t judge a book by its cover.” Reminds us to consider the full story before passing judgment.
Synonyms
Forgive: Excuse someone for a fault or an error.
Ease Up On: Alleviate pressure.
Relax the Rules: Be less strict.
Antonyms
Lean On: Apply pressure.
Nag: Persistent unwanted attention or criticism.
Be Hard On: To be strict or unforgiving.
Quotes
“Compassion and tolerance are not a sign of weakness, but a sign of strength.” - Dalai Lama.
“Life is tough enough without having someone kick you from the inside out.” - Rita Mae Brown
Suggest Literature, Books, Songs, Poetry, and Movies
Books:
- Wonder by R.J. Palacio
- To Kill a Mockingbird by Harper Lee
Songs:
- “Lean on Me” by Bill Withers
- “Count On Me” by Bruno Mars
Movies:
- Pay It Forward (2000)
- The Blind Side (2009)
In fostering understanding and goodwill, we contribute to the emotional wellness of others and cultivate a kinder world.
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With the poetic words of kindness and compassion anchoring our hearts, we navigate the seas of daily life. 🎶 Let leniency lighten your load, loved ones! 🌊
Happy sailing, 🤗
Lexie Linguistics.
👋 Inspirational Thought: “If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.” - Mother Teresa 🕊️
