Introduction
To “do the honors” means to perform the tasks of a host, such as making introductions, carving the turkey, or welcoming guests with open arms (hopefully, not literally detaching them in the process). This expression began appearing in usage as early as the 1700s. A delightful example comes from Alexander Pope’s “Imitations of Horace” (1737):
“Then hire a Slave, or (if you will), a Lord, to do the Honours, and to give the Word.”
Aspiring to be the Countess of Courtesy or the Duke of Diplomacy? Read on! 🎩
Synonyms:
- Play host: Invite your friends over and let the good times roll.
- Be the host with the most: Ensure your guests have everything they need to gossip about you favorably.
- Act as maître d’: Assume command of social arrangements with a dash of flair.
Antonyms:
- Ignore your guests: Decidedly not the path to being nominated for Host of the Year.
- Turn them away: A sure way to keep manatees off your Christmas card list.
Humorous Quotes:
“Always be prepared. They might not return once they’ve tasted your cooking, but at least they’ll remember the fabulous introduction you gave.” – Chef Hostalot
Proverbs:
“He who receives friends and gives no personal attention to the meal, prepares two portions of affliction.” – Ancient Hosting Proverb
Literature:
Books:
- How to be the Perfect Host by Tim Tiptop
- The Art of Gathering by Priya Parker
- Host with the Most by Sarah Willson
Poetry:
- The Invitation by Oriah Mountain Dreamer
Movies:
- Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner (1967)
- The Party (1968)
- Be Our Guest from Beauty and the Beast
Fun Quizzes
Parting Thoughts 🌠
Whether you’re a hostess with the mostest or a host just trying to boast, remember that the essence of “doing the honors” is about making others feel welcome and ensuring that good company is enjoyed. Go forth, make your small talk sparkle, and may your turkey always be perfectly carved.
Until next time, keep hosting those fabulous shindigs and be the marvel that you are. 🍷✨🔔
Best wishes,
E. T. Entertainwell
