🔥 To Steam Up: A Journey Through Fiery Tempers and Flushed Faces 😡
To be upset, agitated, angry. The heat of anger has been noted since ancient times, and it often manifests itself in a flushed, warm face and neck. The precise expression here has been used since the late nineteenth century, when high collars were still in fashion for men. It was well known enough by 1907 for O. Henry to play on it: “That makes Alice warm under the lace yoke” (The Sphinx Apple).
Related Terms and Expressions:
Hot Under the Collar: Burning with anger or frustration.
- Synonyms: Enraged, furious, irate, indignant
- Antonyms: Calm, composed, placid, tranquil
Seeing Red: Becoming very angry, so much so that vision is metaphorically tinted red as if by blood.
- Synonyms: Incensed, infuriated, outraged
- Antonyms: Serene, peaceful, cool-headed
Blowing a Gasket: A colorful metaphor implying one is on the brink of an explosive eruption of temper.
Common Proverbs and Expressions:
- “Tempers are weapons.”
- “Anger is one letter short of danger.”
- “Choose your battles wisely.”
Humor-filled Quotes:
- “Speak when you are angry, and you will make the best speech you will ever regret.” – Ambrose Bierce
- “Keep cool; anger is not an argument.” – Daniel Webster
Literary Suggestions:
- Literature: “King Lear” by William Shakespeare, a masterpiece of passion and wrath.
- Poetry: “A Poison Tree” by William Blake, exploring the nurturing of wrath.
- Books: “Anger: Wisdom for Cooling the Flames” by Thich Nhat Hanh.
Pop Culture References:
- Songs: “You Oughta Know” by Alanis Morissette, an anthem of intense ire.
- Movies: “Anger Management” starring Jack Nicholson and Adam Sandler.
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From smoldering fury to boiling temper, always remember that controlling the fire within takes more strength than unleashing it. Stay temperate and keep learning this delightful dance of words and expressions.
—R. P. Flamington