🛢️ Pouring Oil on Troubled Waters: Calming Clichés and Serene Sayings 🌊
Definition
Pouring oil on troubled waters: To calm a difficult or turbulent situation; to soothe agitated feelings.
Synonyms
- Quell the storm
- Make peace
- Pacify the situation
- Soothe ruffled feathers
Related Phrases
- Bury the hatchet: To make peace or settle a dispute.
- Lower the temperature: To calm down heated emotions.
- Smooth things over: To make a disagreement or conflict less serious.
- Kiss and make up: To reconcile after an argument.
Inspirational Quote 💬
“We cannot direct the wind, but we can adjust the sails.” — Dolly Parton
Provenance
The origin of this phrase dates back to the ancient practice where oil was literally poured onto the sea to calm the water’s waves, reducing friction and calming storms, which metaphorically translates to pacifying arguments or tense situations.
Genres and Literary Suggestions
- Books: “How to Win Friends and Influence People” by Dale Carnegie “Mediation: The Art of Dissonance Control” by Leia Calmington
- Movies: “The Peacemaker” “Cool Runnings” (for its feel-good, conflict-resolving vibes)
- Poems: “The Peace of Wild Things” by Wendell Berry “The Doves” by Thomas Hardy
- Songs: “Let It Be” by The Beatles “Lean on Me” by Bill Withers
Proverbs and Common Expressions 🌟
- “A soft answer turns away wrath.” – Biblical Proverb
- “Let sleeping dogs lie.”
A Fun Fact 🌊
Did you know that sailors still sometimes use oil to calm rough seas today? While not common, it’s a scientific method that can reduce the friction between air and water, thereby calming waves!
Farewell Thought 💡 In a world often stirred by conflict and frustration, be the oil in the troubled waters of life. Soothe, pacify, and bring peace wherever you sail.
Penny Procliché • October 1, 2023
