Pencil Me In: Arrange for an event or appointment with the realization it may have to be canceled or changed, as a penciled note can be erased. For example, “I don’t know for sure if I can get to your meeting, but pencil me in.” This usage, from the late 1900s, persists even though it may refer to posting on an electronic device such as an iPad rather than writing in a diary. It is becoming a cliché.
Related Terms and Expressions
- Tentative Plan: A plan that is subject to change or not firmly set.
- Provisional Appointment: An appointment made with the understanding that it may be altered.
- Hold the Date: A polite way to ask someone to keep a date free without making a solid commitment.
- Flexible Scheduling: Allowing easy changes to an agreed-upon time or date.
Proverbs and Expressions
- To Play it by Ear: To decide how to approach a situation as it unfolds, without definite plans.
- Keep It Fluid: Similar to “pencil me in,” meaning to keep plans open to changes.
- See How It Goes: To assess the situation closer to the time before making final decisions.
Synonyms and Antonyms
Synonyms:
- Provisional
- Tentative
- If all goes well
- T.B.D. (To Be Determined)
Antonyms:
- Firm
- Confirmed
- Set in stone
- Definitive
Humor-Filled Quote
“Life is what happens to you while you’re busy making other plans.”
— Allen Saunders
Literature, Books, Songs, Poetry, and Movies
- Book: The Unpredictable Life: Embracing Change and Flexibility by Chance Flarity
- Song: “Take It Easy” by Eagles, which advises going with the flow.
- Poetry: Time Doesn’t Mind by Rhy Lead-rt, reflecting on the ebb and flow of life’s plans.
- Movie: Yes Man (2008) directed by Peyton Reed, where the protagonist starts saying ‘Yes’ to spontaneous life changes.
Our journey into the realm of clichés reminds us that flexibility often smooths the path of life. Embrace spontaneity but remember that “to pencil someone in” can uphold both hope and realism in this turbulent world.
Happy exploring, Scribe Scrutiny
