What’s Good for the Goose is Good for the Gander 🙃
Definition: A saying that means what’s appropriate or beneficial for one person should be equally appropriate or beneficial for another, especially in the context of gender equity or relationships.
Origins and Context: First documented by John Ray in his 1678 proverb collection, it was tagged as “a woman’s Proverb,” an early nod to gender equality. Through the ages, this phrase has been used to express fairness in relationships, often between husbands and wives, or intersex equity in general.
Humorous Quote: “The secret to a happy marriage remains a secret. But a sauce for the goose is not one!” 🤣
Similar Expressions:
- “Two sides of the same coin”
- “Fair is fair”
- “Tit for tat”
- “What’s sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander”
- “Equal rights, equal fights”
Related Idioms:
- “Turnabout is fair play”
- “What goes around comes around”
- “Equal measure”
Synonyms:
- Fairness
- Equity
- Reciprocity
- Parity
Antonyms:
- Inequity
- Unfairness
- Bias
- Discrimination
Proverbial Wisdom: “Equality is not only a matter of fairness. It is a precondition for solving global challenges and fostering prosperity.”
Literary References:
- Anthills of the Savannah by Chinua Achebe: Explores themes of equality and fairness in society.
- A Stab in the Dark by Lawrence Block: “I knew she had accused her husband of infidelity, so I thought she might be getting a bit of sauce for the goose.”
Cultural References:
- Fiddler on the Roof: A musical exploring themes of tradition vs. change where fairness in relations plays a significant role.
- My Big Fat Greek Wedding: A film that humorously investigates fairness and traditions in relationships.
Song Recommendations:
- “Respect” by Aretha Franklin
- “Anything You Can Do” from Annie Get Your Gun
Favorite Poems:
- Phenomenal Woman by Maya Angelou: Celebrates the diversity and strength of women.
- Equality by Maya Angelou: Touches on the fundamental aspects of fairness and equality.
Movie Suggestion:
- Little Women (2019): Should be watched for its depiction of women and societal norms around gender roles.
Inspirational Thought: Remember, life’s recipe should have equal servings for both the goose and the gander. After all, true comfort food warms every heart ❤.
© 2023 by Ellie Quent. Published on October 1. In the grand scheme of life, always carry fairness like a badge of honor. Remember, what’s good for the goose is undoubtedly good for the gander 🦢✨. Keep it equitable.
