throw one’s weight around, to
To use one’s wealth or standing to manipulate others; to act officiously.
Definition: This expression means to use one’s power or influence in an arrogant or overbearing way. It originated in the early 20th century, with “weight” symbolizing authority.
Example in Literature: In John P. Marquand’s H. M. Pulham, Esquire (1941), it’s used to describe someone misusing their power and influence: “Bo-jo was a bastard, a big bastard. Perhaps he meant that Bo-jo sometimes threw his weight around.”
Similar Terms
- Power trip: Engaging in behavior that demonstrates an inflated sense of authority.
- Bossy boots: A term for someone who likes to boss others around.
- Pull rank: Use one’s superior position to one’s advantage.
Synonyms
- Bully
- Domineer
- Overbear
Antonyms
- Humble
- Modest
- Democratize
Humor-Filled Quotes
“Some people throw their weight around like confetti, and it’s just as annoying.” – Anonymous
References
- The Godfather by Mario Puzo (Book): A tale where power plays a central role, and many characters throw their weight around.
- Bossypants by Tina Fey (Book): A humorous take on power and managing others.
- Songs: “Under Pressure” by Queen, because sometimes the best things come from high tension and stress (even if there’s less literal weight-throwing involved).
Proverbs
- “Absolute power corrupts absolutely.” - Lord Acton
- “Might makes right.” - Old Adage
Suggested Media
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Movies:
- The Devil Wears Prada: A glance into power dynamics in the fashion world.
- A Few Good Men: Military hierarchies and the use of authority.
- Wolf of Wall Street: Corporate power plays at their wildest.
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Books:
- 1984 by George Orwell: Examines the abuse of political power.
- Animal Farm by George Orwell: Highlights how power can corrupt morals.
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Songs:
- “We Will Rock You” by Queen: An anthemic take on standing up against dominating forces.
Author Note: Published by W. T. Wittywords on October 1, 2023.
As you leaf through the pages of authority-wielding expressions, remember this: Power is a mirror, reflecting the truest image of oneself. Use it wisely, humbly, and with the best intentions always. Happy reading!