Having the Upper Hand 🖐️
To be in a dominating or controlling position. This term has been around since the fifteenth century. It comes from an ancient gambling game in which each player in turn puts one hand on a stick, beginning at the bottom, and the last one able to put his hand at the top wins. The Anglican Book of Common Prayer has it: “Up, Lord, and let not man have the upper hand” (from Miles Coverdale’s translation of Psalm 9:19).
Similar Terms & Expressions:
- Calling the shots: To be the person who controls a situation.
- Holding the reins: To be in control or have the power in a situation.
- Running the show: To be in charge of something.
- Top dog: The most important person in a group or organization.
- Pulling the strings: Being in control behind the scenes.
Proverbs & Quotes:
- “When you have the upper hand, don’t hit hard; it may hurt your own wrist.” – Anonymous
- “The greatest victory is that which requires no battle.” – Sun Tzu
Laughs and Literature:
- In “Monty Python’s Flying Circus,” the sketch “Upper Class Twit of the Year” shows the ridiculous side of being the top dog.
- “The Art of War” by Sun Tzu, for mastering the strategy behind maintaining control.
- The song “The Winner Takes It All” by ABBA, reflecting the bittersweet nature of having the upper hand.
Films:
- “The Devil Wears Prada” showcases a controlling boss who undoubtedly has the upper hand in the fashion industry.
- “The Godfather” triumphs in power dynamics and control strategies, perfect for understanding the ominous aspects of having the upper hand.
Until next time, remember: words are your power, and you always have a hand (upper or otherwise) in how you play the game.
Inspirational Thought: “In the battle of words, may you always find yourself with the upper hand, wielding wit as sharp as your wisdom.”
— L. M. Quipsalot ✨
