Ever heard that guests, like fish, stink after three days? You’re not alone.
Definition: To prolong a visit more than one’s host wishes.
Related Terms, Proverbs, and Idioms§
- Long in the tooth: A metaphorical expression for something that has outstayed its welcome.
- Beating a dead horse: Continuing to discuss an issue that has been thoroughly resolved to the irritation of others.
- Hanging on by a thread: Although usually referring to a precarious situation, it’s how your hosts feel after day four of your visit.
- Dropping in unexpectedly: Almost as unwelcome but with the potential for early departure.
Humor-Filled Quotes§
“Fish and visitors stink in three days.” – Benjamin Franklin.
Recommended Reading and Watching§
Books:
- Pride and Prejudice by Jane Austen - for its keen observation of social graces and overstayed visits.
- The Art of Conversation by Catherine Blyth - sharpen your wit and ensure your visits last just the right amount of time.
Movies:
- The Guest - This thriller hones in on the chaos that can ensue when a guest overstays their visit.
- Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner - Both humorous and poignant, it’s a reflection on changing social dynamics and the delicate art of hosting.
Songs:
- “You Can’t Always Get What You Want” by The Rolling Stones. Remember, it’s better to be a wanted guest than a ‘stinking fish.’
Poetry:
- Stopping by Woods on a Snowy Evening by Robert Frost. Take the hint from nature—there are miles to go before you stay over.
Time to pack, lest you become an unwelcome guest! Remember, brevity is the soul of wit, and it applies to every friendly visit. Travel lightly, speak thoughtfully, and leave your host longing for your next arrival.
Author: M.A. Pithypenny 🌟
