Wear the Pants, To
Wear the pants, to - [verb phrase] To be the boss. Derived from the historical gender role where men exclusively wore pants and were generally considered the household’s head honcho.
Evolution of the Idiom
- Original Use: Originally applied long ago to depict women usurping traditional male roles in the household.
- Modern Nuances: Often used humorously or critically to comment on power dynamics in various types of relationships.
Related Terms and Synonyms
- Call the shots: Make important decisions; be in control.
- Hold the reins: To have control or authority in a situation.
- Run the show: To be in charge; to be the primary manager or organizer.
Antonyms
- Play second fiddle: To assume a subordinate role to someone else.
Pithy Proverbs & Quotes 🤓
- “The pants may be on, but who’s actually holding the belt?” - Anonymous
- “He who must wear the pants should ensure they fit.” - Proverbial Wisdom
Literature, Books, Songs, Poetry, and Movies
- Book: Bossypants by Tina Fey - A humorous memoir offering reflections on perceived female authority and industry roles.
- Song: “Uptown Funk” by Mark Ronson ft. Bruno Mars – Fun lyrics implying mutual dominance in modern relationships.
- Movie: Mrs. Doubtfire - Wildly funny movie exploring the fluidity of family roles and females leading the pack.
Humor-filled Thought
“Forget wearing the pants; why not put on the whole wardrobe and show them who’s really in charge?”
### Which term relates to being in charge?
- [x] Call the shots
- [ ] Wear the skirt
- [ ] Rearrange the curtains
- [ ] Drive the pink Cadillac
> **Explanation:** "Call the shots" is a commonly understood phrase implying someone is in a position of authority or in control of a situation.
### True or False: Wearing the pants exclusively applies to marital situations
- [ ] True
- [x] False
> **Explanation:** While historically rooted in marital roles, today the phrase can apply to any relationship or situation involving authority dynamics.
### What is the antonym of 'wear the pants'?
- [ ] Fly the coop
- [ ] Wear the shorts
- [ ] Dance in the dark
- [x] Play second fiddle
> **Explanation:** "Play second fiddle" means taking a subordinate role, thus directly opposing the idea of 'wearing the pants.'
Author’s Note: Our understanding of authority and who gets to “wear the pants” has evolved significantly, reflecting broader societal changes. Remember, true leadership doesn’t come from the clothes you wear, but the actions you take.
Stay curious, challengers of conventions!
- Olivia Rulingston
